What is domestic abuse
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The below will help you to identify what is domestic abuse.
- Domestic abuse is the repeated abuse of a person (or persons) over 16 years of age, who are or have been, in an intimate or a family relationship.
- Domestic abuse is about the use of threats and intimidation by one person to control another person and make them feel scared to speak out about what is happening.
- Domestic abuse usually happens in private or in the home and the control and abuse build up over time. It can be very difficult to recognise and talk about outside the relationship.
Anyone can be a victim of domestic abuse, regardless of gender, age, ethnicity, sexuality, ability, circumstances or background.
If you're a victim of domestic abuse, it is not your fault. You are not alone. There are many people who can help you and your children. If left unchallenged then domestic abuse will usually get worse over time.
How to recognise domestic abuse in a relationship
Anyone can be a victim of domestic abuse, regardless of gender, age, ethnicity, socio-economic status, sexuality or background. There are many types of abuse.
- Emotional abuse
- Threats and intimidation
- Physical abuse
- Sexual abuse
GOV.UK provide information on how you can recognise domestic abuse in a relationship and how to support someone you know that is being abused.
What support is available
There are many services that offer free confidential support and advice which is available to victims and their concerned family members or friends.
Luton services
- Bedfordshire Victim Care Services: 0800 028 2887
- Luton all women’s centre: 01582 416783
- Women’s aid in Luton: 01582 391856
- Stepping stones Luton: 01582 341343
- Ebonista Project: +44 7306088816
Nationwide services
- National 24h domestic abuse helpline: 0808 2000 247 (offers live chat service)
- Men’s advice line: 0808 801 0327 (web chat available)
- LGBTQ+ DV helpline: 0300 999 5428 (offers live chat service)
- Honour based abuse helpline: 0800 5999 247
- National stalking helpline: 0808 802 0300
- Revenge porn helpline: 0345 6000 459
- Respect phone-line: 0808 802 4040 (for those who are worried about or want to change their behaviour – web chat service available)
- Child line: 0800 1111 (provides night chat service)
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